Feats of Humility: Is It Time to Give Up Driving?
As we age, there are certain concessions to make at one time or another, such as the decision to give up sugary soft drinks or to stop discussing politics at Thanksgiving dinner (just kidding, we all know that will never happen). The choice to stop driving can be difficult and frustrating, but it doesn’t have to mean a loss of independence.
How Old Is Too Old to Drive?
There are many factors to consider, including one’s confidence, physical limitations and cognitive ability. There is no magical age when one suddenly loses the ability to drive. However, there are indications that it might be time to relinquish control of the car.
Warning Signs That You Should Give Up Driving
There are some warning signs to look for that may indicate it is time for an older adult to stop driving. These may include but are not limited to the following:
- delayed responses while in traffic,
- driving onto curbs,
- knocking down mailboxes (neighbors don’t appreciate this),
- driving too slow or too fast, and
- being easily distracted on the road.
Health Conditions Can Be a Factor
Conditions like dementia, arthritis, hearing or vision problems can negatively impact driving competence. Of course, just like there is no magical age that determines driving ability, having a medical condition does not automatically preclude a person from being able to drive. It could, however, be a limiting factor depending on the severity of the condition.
Is It Time to Turn in the Keys?
If you or a loved one have experienced these warning signs or are suffering from a health condition that is impacting driving ability, you might want to think about alternatives to driving that allow you to still maintain your independence.
The idea of giving up driving can be hard to accept. After all, driving represents independence, convenience and freedom. Relying on friends and family or public transit can be a chore, but it is worth it to avoid the risks involved with unsafe driving.
Driving Alternatives
If you or a loved one make the safer choice to give up driving, there are other options:
- Get the bus schedule and find out about the services PSTA offers
- Contact the Neighborly Care Network. The transportation staff will work with you to provide door-to-door service.
- Sign up for delivery services to have things like groceries, medications and more delivered directly to your home.
- Enjoy the relaxing, scenic ride while being chauffeured around town by your friends and family.
If All Else Fails
Talk to the doctor. He or she can help in the decision-making. It is natural to resist the decision to give up your keys, but it could be the best decision for the health and safety of you or your loved one. Sometimes a little medical advice (and some tough love) is needed to convince a proud and stubborn older adult to step off the horse.